Do we take criticism as gracefully as appreciation??

hey guys!
my post after a long time but somethin i really feel...
oh so i recently realized dat weneva i'm wrong I don't really accept it dat well..
okay i'll illustrate.....
some days back i had an arguement wid mum it was abt cleaning d room
(im sure every1 must hv experienced it..) and i ended up saying that its very cool
as it is n i don't want my room to look like a five star room coz it won't be my own then..
but actually i did want my room to be cleaner n my cupboard to be more arranged n my
things to be in places but its jus dat im so lazy i didnt want 2 move a muscle..
The point is dat i said wot i did jus to prove myself right and didn't take my mum's word to work n make my place more organized....

Another situation i often face is weneva some1 doesn't agree wid me i kinda constantly
try to argue instead of realizing dat i cud be wrong too..i am like WTF that person is out of his mind he is like so stupid n whateva...

but in case wen some1 says gud stuff abt me im in seventh heaven n jus like the person
instatly no question asked....
hey i figured now dat it makes u feel good wen some1 appreciates u but at d same time
one shud take criticism in good taste and shud work on further improvement rather than cribbing!!!!!!!!!!!!

okie enough 4 now
u guys surprised by my post?
even i can't imagine me being so philosophical!!
neways bye bye